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謝れない人間への対処法について。関わらないに越したことはないけどそうも言ってられない場合もあるもんね。私はひたすらノータッチで済む方向に持っていくけどw
stubborn
意味 〈人が〉頑固な, 強情な, かたくなな (obstinate)
Are they just stubborn?
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responsibility
意味 [U] <誤り· 悪行などに対する> 責任, 責め <for>
Or is there something in their psychology that stops them from being able to take responsibility for their actions and simply say they’re sorry?
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grudge
意味 [C] <…に対する> 恨み, 遺恨, 悪意 <against>
If you think the coworker already holds a grudge against you for an earlier incident, you may skip apologizing since you feel it really won’t help your relationship with them.
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発音は「 /ɡrʌdʒ/ 」かっこいい単語。
ego
意味 自己意識, 自己像, 自我; 自負心, 自尊心
People who cannot apologize often have such deep feelings of low self-worth that their fragile egos cannot absorb the blow of admitting they were wrong.
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irate
意味 激怒した, 怒り心頭の (angry); (まれ)〈声などが〉怒りに満ちた.
The mistake we often make when faced with someone incapable of apologizing is to become irate and try to win our argument with them. But the sad reality is: We’ll never win.
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solicitous
意味 (かたく) 案じて, 気遣って
Are they extra kind or solicitous to us?
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