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自分にしか興味ないから私ってナルシストかもなーと思った時期がありましたが、多分違いますね。本当に興味がないから、他人をコントロールしたいと思わないもの。
manipulative
意味 (非難して) (人を) 巧みに扱う [操る], 口がうまい, ずるい.
2. They’re manipulative
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controversy
意味 論争
According to Durvasula, their posts on social media are often designed to receive validation, gain sympathy, or inspire controversy.
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distract
意味 〈人· 物などが〉<…から>〈人· 注意など〉をそらす, 紛らす, 散らす (⇔attract)
For example, “they will spend hours talking about themselves and their issues, but the moment you talk about yourself, they are distractible and uninterested, and when you point this out to them they call you selfish,” says Durvasula.
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この「distract」と対義語「attract」の方向性と極端さがナルシストなんでしょうね。
superficial
意味 (中身に乏しく) 表面的な, うわべだけの
5. They’re superficial
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welfare
意味 (健康· 生活の快適さなどが満たされた) 幸福
A narcissist may be egocentric, or self-centered to the point that they prioritize their own needs and welfare over that of others.
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deal with A
意味 A〈困難など〉に対処する, A〈感情〉を抑える
How should you deal with a narcissist?
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gracefully
意味 いさぎよく〈負けるなど〉.
“Get out of the situation as quickly as possible and as gracefully as possible. It’s a no win, so you may as well exit with grace.”
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engage with
意味 (かたく)〈人が〉(よりよい理解のために) <事· 人々などに> かかわる, ふれあう <with>
When they say something hurtful or offensive toward you, don’t engage with them because they are just trying to get a rise out of you.
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これですよね。常にマウントとってくるので関わらないのが最善。
admiration
意味 [U][具体例では an (…) ~]<…に対する> 称賛, 感嘆, 賛美, 敬服 <for, of>
Narcissists believe that they are superior to other people, so they always expect admiration and special treatment.
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